Wife's - Allegations / Responsibilities

We are total three people staying together, my mother 83 of years of age, my wife 47 years of age and myself of 53 aged years.

My sister-in-law was admitted to hospital for operation, as my sister-in-law’s daughter and son were also going to visit her, I asked my wife join in so that we can all go in one taxi, my wife said she is not interested in visiting my sister-in-law, so I started getting ready and while I was changing my clothes my wife started saying in loud tone that you are going to hospital to have fun since you have a illicit relation with your sister-in-law and started quarreling with me, after a big quarrel I had to drop the plan to visit my sister-in-law in hospital.

After I was accused of having illicit relation with my sister-in-law, my wife started accusing me of having illicit relation with the daughter of my sister-in-law and we quarrel a lot over it.

Once I was applying wintogeno cream to my mother’s leg as she had pain in legs, the cream would give her a relief, my wife started shouting in high tone and went to our bedroom and standing partly in balcony and partly in bedroom so that the balcony door remains open and everyone in society can hear her, she started saying loudly you enjoy massaging your mother’s leg and much more, again accusing me of having illicit relation with my mother.

My wife repeatedly used to visit doctor (gynecologist) along with her father / mother without my knowledge and never told me about her visits to the doctor, her visits to doctor were one or two days after her periods were over, but I was not told.

On night of 01/07/10 my wife told me that tomorrow (02/07/10) she is going to stay with her father for 4 days, her menstrual period ended on 01/07/10 (her father was out of Mumbai, so with whom she stayed with is not told), she also visits her brother-in-law (may be staying overnight there too) who stays nearby her father’s residence, many times her stay are after the end of her menstrual period, so where she was staying? And with whom she was staying? she returned on 06/07/10 evening, but I am not told about her stay, where and with whom?

After marriage, household expenses were borne by my mother and myself, my wife said “NO” to contribution towards household expenses, saying it’s the responsibility of husband, so my wife has never contributed to the household expenses.

What’s the responsibility of wife? To go and stay with her parents almost every month? If so, what’s the need of marriage?

When approached an advocate, he told there’s no point in making such a complaint.