Wife's - Allegations / Responsibilities

We are total three people staying together, my mother 83 of years of age, my wife 47 years of age and myself of 53 aged years.

My sister-in-law was admitted to hospital for operation, as my sister-in-law’s daughter and son were also going to visit her, I asked my wife join in so that we can all go in one taxi, my wife said she is not interested in visiting my sister-in-law, so I started getting ready and while I was changing my clothes my wife started saying in loud tone that you are going to hospital to have fun since you have a illicit relation with your sister-in-law and started quarreling with me, after a big quarrel I had to drop the plan to visit my sister-in-law in hospital.

After I was accused of having illicit relation with my sister-in-law, my wife started accusing me of having illicit relation with the daughter of my sister-in-law and we quarrel a lot over it.

Once I was applying wintogeno cream to my mother’s leg as she had pain in legs, the cream would give her a relief, my wife started shouting in high tone and went to our bedroom and standing partly in balcony and partly in bedroom so that the balcony door remains open and everyone in society can hear her, she started saying loudly you enjoy massaging your mother’s leg and much more, again accusing me of having illicit relation with my mother.

My wife repeatedly used to visit doctor (gynecologist) along with her father / mother without my knowledge and never told me about her visits to the doctor, her visits to doctor were one or two days after her periods were over, but I was not told.

On night of 01/07/10 my wife told me that tomorrow (02/07/10) she is going to stay with her father for 4 days, her menstrual period ended on 01/07/10 (her father was out of Mumbai, so with whom she stayed with is not told), she also visits her brother-in-law (may be staying overnight there too) who stays nearby her father’s residence, many times her stay are after the end of her menstrual period, so where she was staying? And with whom she was staying? she returned on 06/07/10 evening, but I am not told about her stay, where and with whom?

After marriage, household expenses were borne by my mother and myself, my wife said “NO” to contribution towards household expenses, saying it’s the responsibility of husband, so my wife has never contributed to the household expenses.

What’s the responsibility of wife? To go and stay with her parents almost every month? If so, what’s the need of marriage?

When approached an advocate, he told there’s no point in making such a complaint.

SCAM

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KALMADI MUST GO IF FOUND GUILTY. - CWG SCAM

Dear Friends,

We are in bad practice of allowing person to quit after he is found guilty.

In fact, we should make the person restore / undo the damages done by him, at the same time he should be strip of the power given to him, as he is bound to misuse it, make his senior / head of department to keep a check on him till the damage is restore, after restoration of damages only than make him punishable under law, so during this restoration period you have ample time to get evidence.

There are people who make lot of Money from scam / crime that will last for a long period and than resign and make another scam / crime and this goes on, since they are aware that RESIGNATION is the perfect way to escape punishment, hence I feel that a person should not be allowed to resign which enables him to escape duty and punishment as well.

Avoid RESIGNATION, Stop ESCAPE.

Your Comments / Opinion needed.

Tags : RESIGNATION & ESCAPE

OFFICIAL CORRUPTION

MP's Salary raised from 16K to 50K + other benefits

What will be the source to generate money to pay their salaries in future, increase tax amount or add another type of tax, now we should not be burdened by any additional tax/s.

The Times of India publishes so many corrupt people and most of them are related to politicians.

Its a disgrace to our country that we cannot do anything about it, just watch our own money being gambled by another person.

We may rank FIRST in corruption if they conduct a survey without any mischief.

Many people's & my comment/s was not published in timesofindia.indiatimes.com where every citizen can write a comment, hence I have to re-write again with many important points missing.

Single Remote controlling many puppets.

Tags : TERRIBLE FUTURE

ARE WE LEADING?

Times of India dated 21/06/09 stated (HYDERABAD) AP JUDGES HELD FOR DOWRY TORTURE.

Are we moving ahead of corruption?

4 GOA MINISTER ARE HABITUAL GAMBLERS: POLICE

The above title in Times of India dated 21/06/09 is surprising, well it may be their personal, but every time a person does not win in gambling and since its mention as habitual gamblers, the source of money for gambling should not be of tax payers.

SUMMER SEASON or GLOBAL WARMING

ITS WHAT I FEEL

The summer season is hot season, but not as what we are facing, this is because of human error, even when aware of Global Warming, Ecological problem, we developed a concrete jungle, it seems there we are too slow to restore it, and if we really expect the next generation to be comfortable, its our duty speed up the matter and restore nature as it was (which is difficult and time consuming), which can be of good help in long run.

UNFAIR LUXURY

PLEASE NOTE IT IS MY OPINION ONLY

It is unfair for some politicians to enjoy luxuries like A/c house, good quality food, comfortable travel and many other facilities provided to them are from tax payers who sweat to earn, still we find a raise in their salary, plus other benefits which a common man does not get, but he is the source for providing these facilities to the politicians and what does a politician provides to a common man, a everlasting dream, if a person at office does not yields positive results his/her salary or benefits are not raised, but this is not applicable to politicians, whether they yield positive results or no results, this is applicable to some of our politicians.

Since the politicians want to help / serve Public and Country, the Government need not give them premises / bungalows to reside and / or any other facilities provided at the cost of tax payers should be given only to those who have fulfilled their promises, which should be certified from locals in the area that they indeed yield positive results, misuse of power by many politicians came to light only after a long period.